مقامی۔ Badin Sindh خبریں ، Pakistan
Let's fight against turbulence and embarrassment!
We, people, are so sympathetic rather than being empathetic people means; we feel only sorry for every worst situation, we feel only pain and just literally share our pains making the worst situation even more painful and miserable, we have only sense of pity, not compassion, compassion does mean taking an action following commiseration, we have only feelings, not initiatives, dreams, not actions.
Empathetic pain (empathy) does mean feel sorry for and get initiatives, take pity and action simultaneously to solace and succor to appease someone's sorrow and self-deception! Don't exercise only verbal compassion, verbal succor, and verbal consolation. Be proactive and assertive! Just like this, we have desperation, not inspiration; we don't get inspired by others, our fellows, our acquaintances, our bosses, our sponsors, our compatriots having more pelf or power, influence or opulence because it is all only for their status symbol, it's their privilege, it's for their limelight, sophistication, ostentation, and luxuries which enhances only their standard of living not quality of living; in return, we get nothing more but avarice, envy, jealousy, malice, grudge, rancor, sense of self-pity, frustration, and sense of deprivation which leads our society to nothing but desperation and temptation; resultantly, society gets prone to inequity, injustice, disruption, misery, discontent, and chaos! People tend to become chaotic to feel deprived and forsaken, they begin to get frustrated and desperate inimical to rather getting inspired and motivated.
You can take glaring examples of the dedicated world, i.e Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, Steve Jobs, founders of Amazon, F.B. Apple, Alibaba, Google, etc. they think win-win believing in core values of altruism, humanity, philanthropy, empathy, integrity, generosity and charity having meaningful and purposeful life is the pioneers, tycoons and the torchbearer of the digital civilization! They believe in sincere returning! They transform their people, people get inspired by reading them, visiting them, listening to them, people become their followers! They practice trust, collaboration, synergy, and entrepreneurship, whereas we tread on against the laws of nature going against the grass having scarcity mentality, misanthropic thinking, fixed mindset, egoistic & pessimistic approach in almost every situation of life. This is commonly why our society creating chaos making people poorer from the poor and richer from the rich leaving behind only desperation and doldrum, inequity and frustration, retaliation and revenge that is not only causing embarrassment & disorientation here but will also become devastation and humiliation on the Doomsday the Day of the Judgment and Reckoning.
Summing up, what we need indeed is to have transforming leadership anyhow somehow as a prerequisite not to blindly follow bandwagon, herd of scoundrels and hooligans so that people could be developed and taught meaningful life, youth could be instilled with worth and values for the sake of better tomorrow free from suicides and miseries, adversity and injustice, inequity and oppression as an unprecedented gift for our young generations...
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شهر ٽنڊو محمد خان
ماءُ جي اهميت
هر ماءُ پنهنجي ٻارن لاءِ خاص هوندي آهي. هوءَ هڪ بهترين استاد ، هڪ پياري دوست آهي. هوءَ پڻ پنهنجي گهر جي ضرورت جو خيال رکي ٿي.
ماءُ گهر جي روشني آهي
ماءُ کانسواءِ دنيا جو تصور ڪرڻ تمام گهڻو گهيرو وارو احساس آهي. هڪ ماءُ عام طور تي ترقي جي مرحلن دوران ٻار لاءِ سهڪار وارو نظام آهي. هڪ ماءُ ماءُ هوندي آهي ان لاءِ ڪا ڳالهه ناهي ته اهي گهر ۾ ئي رهن ٿا يا جيڪڏهن اهي آزادي سان ڪم ڪري رهيا آهن. ڪجه سال اڳ سماج ۾ عورت جي نوڪري صرف خاندان جي ڏينهن جي ذميوارين ۽ ٻارن جو خيال رکڻ هو. هر وقت جي ڀيٽ ۾ وڌيڪ عورتن پنهنجي خاندان لاءِ مالي مدد ڪندي هڪ زندگي پيدا ڪئي آهي. ماء جي عظيم ترين اثاثن مان هڪ آهي پنهنجي ٻار سان ڳنڊڻ ۾. تصور جي لمحه کان ٻار ۽ والدين جي وچ ۾ هڪ خاص تعلق ٺاهيو ويندو آهي. جڏهن هڪ ٻار زندگي جي چئلينج سان منهن ڏيندو آهي ته گهڻو ڪري اهي پنهنجي ماءُ کان هدايت گهرندا آهن. آڄ جي هن وقت ۾ ماڻهون پنهنجي ماءُ جو قدر نٿا ڪن جڏهن ته ماءُ هڪ عظيم حثيت آهي اللّٰه پاڪ جي ڏنل نعمتون مان ماءُ هڪ وڏي نعمت آهي۔
جيڪڏي ماءُ کانسواءِ ڪنهن جي زندگي هوندي آهي ته عام طور تي انهن جي زندگي گذارڻ وڌيڪ مشڪل ٿي پونڌي آهي۔
هن مضمون ۾ ، آئون پنهنجي ماءُ بابت ڪجه الفاظ لکان ٿي۔ منهنجي ماءُ جي وفات سال 2016 شعبان جي مهيني تاريخ 11 ۾ ٿي اهو منهجي ماءُ کي وڃائڻ جو تمام ڏکيو وقت هو۔ منهجي ماءُ منهنجي لاءِ ايترو ته خاص آهي ڇو جو هن جي محبت سچائي ۽ خلوص جو هڪ مضمون آهي.
جڏهن آئون اونڌاري کان ڊنل هوئس ته هوءَ منهنجي روشني بڻجي ويندي هئي ۽ انهي اونداهي ۾ منهنجي رهنمائي ڪندي هئي اُن سان گڏ جيڪڏهن آئون رات تائين سمهي نه سگهنديس ، جيستائين هو ننڊ ۾ نه رهندي هئي منهنجو ايترو ته خيال رکندي هئي جو هن پوري دنيا ۾ ڪو ئي نٿو رکي سگهي سڀ کان وڌيڪ ، هوءَ ڪڏهن به ڏکين وقتن ۾ به منهنجي طرف نه ڇڏيندي هئي.
هڪ ٻيو سبب اهو آهي ته هوءَ پنهنجي خاندان کي پنهنجي نعمت سان نوازيندي ۽ جيئندي هئي. وڌيڪ ، مون کي سڀ ڪجهه ڏنو پر موٽ ۾ ڪڏهن به ڪجهه به طلب نه ڪيو. هن جو خاندان ۾ هر ڪنهن جو خيال رکڻ وارو رستو مون کي پنهنجي مستقبل ۾ هڪ ئي متاثر ڪندو آهي.
هي ، هن جو پيار رڳو ڪٽنب لاءِ ناهي هو هر اجنبي ۽ جانورن سان ساڳيو سلوڪ ڪندي هئي هوءَ ماحول ۽ جانورن لاءِ تمام مهربان ۽ سمجھدار هئي۔
منهنجي ماءُ هڪ عام عورت هئي هوءَ منهنجي زندگي جي هڪ اهم حصو آهي. منهنجي هر قدم ۾ ، هن منهنجي حمايت ڪئي ۽ منهنجو همٿايو. چاهي ڏينهن هجي يا رات هوءَ سدائين منهنجي لاءِ موجود هئي ڪا به حالت ناهي. ان کانسواءِ ، هن جو هر ڪم ، ثابت قدمي ، لگن ، وقف رويي منهنجي لاءِ حيرت جوڳو هئي. سڀ کان وڌيڪ ، منهنجي ماءُ مون کي همٿ ڏيارئندي هئي ته آئون پنهنجون سموريون صلاحيتون ۽ مطالعو بهتر ڪريان. هن مون کي بار بار ڪوشش ڪرڻ جي ترغيب ڏني جيستائين آئون ان ۾ ڪامياب نه ٿي وڃان. آڄ جنهن ڪڏهن آئون پنهجي منزل تي آهيان ته پنهنجي ماءُ جي ڪري جيڪڏهن مونکي بهتر تربيت ، تعليم نه ڏي آھ ته آڄ آئون هن سماج ۾ ڪجه به نه هجان ها هڪ ماءُ ئي اولاد کي سٺي منزل تائين رسائي ٿي ۽ نيڪ انسان بڻائي ٿي ماءُ کانسواءِ هن دنيا ۾ ڪير به ڪنهن جو نه آهي ماءُ جي قدر ڪرڻ وارو ئي هن دنيا ۾ ڪامياب آهي۔
محبت ھڪ سزا بڻيل
ڏٺو وڃي ٿو ته عورتن جي لاءِ محبت ھڪ سزا بڻيل آهي. انھن سان ڪوڙا الفاظ
اگر محبت سچي هجي ته ان ۾ دولت يا خوبصورتي نه آهي ڏٺي ويندي. هميشه ڪجھ مردن جا اھي الفاظ ٻڌڻ لاءِ ملندا آهن عورتن کي. پر اصل ھن دنيا ۾ محبت جي نالي سان ڪوڙ دوکو ئي آهي جنهن۾ معصوم نياڻين جي زندگيءَ سان کيڏيو وڃي ٿو.۽ انھن جي زندگيءَ برباد ڪئي ويندي آهي مونکي افسوس ٿئي ٿو انھن نياڻين جو جيڪي محبت جي نالي تي برباد ٿين ٿيون. ۽ يا وري انھن کي بليڪ ميل ڪري انهن سان بدسلوڪي ڪئي ويندي آهي.
اصل محبت اها آهي جيڪو عزت ڪري پنهنجي محبت کي عزت جي نظرن سان ڏسي ان کي پنهنجي عزت سمجهي نڪاح جو حق ڏي ان جو خيال رکي عورت کي دنيا جي هر خوشي ڏئي. عورت ھڪ معصوم انمول آهي جيڪا ماءُ ڌيءُ ڀيڻ ھوندي آھي. جيڪڏھن ڪو مرد پنهنجي گھر جي عورتن جي عزت ڪندو اهو ٻين جي نياڻين جي به عزت ڪندو. مون ھميشه عورتن جي باري ۾ تحرير لکيو آهي. پر مون کي ھر ماڻھو اھو چوندو آهي ته توهان جا هميشه عورتن جي باري ۾ تحرير ھوندا آھن. پھرين ڳالهه ته آئون پاڻ هڪ عورت آهيان. ھڪ عورت ئي ٻئي عورت کي سمجهي سگهي ٿي مون ھميشه ڪجھ اھڙين معصوم نياڻين کي روئندي ڏٺو آهي. جيڪي مشڪل سان زندگيءَ کي گذاري رهيو آھين. انھن سان زيادتي ۽ تشدد ٿيندو رهيو آهي. عورتن کي ڪوڙين محبتن۾ رکي انھن جي زندگيءَ کي برباد ڪيو ويندو آهي. معصوم نياڻين کي ۽ ڪجھ اھڙيون به نياڻيون آھين جيڪي مجبوري ۾ پنھنجي پاڻ کي ماري ڇڏين ٿيون ۽ يا وري انھن نياڻين کي ڪارو ڪاريءَ جو لقب ڏئي. انهن کي قتل ڪيو ويندو آهي. جڏهن ته غلطيءَ مرد جي به ھوندي آھي پر ان جي باوجود سزا عورت کي ڏني ويندي آهي. اسان جي ھن سماج ۾ ڪجھ اھڙا به مرد آھن جن جي غلطيون جي ڪري معصوم نياڻين جو مستقبل خراب ٿئي
۽ ھن سماج ۾ عورت ذات کي ڪڏھن به انصاف نه ڏياريو ويندو آهي آخر ڪيستائين عورتن کي صرف سزائون ڏنيون ويندو ها عورت جي ته بس ھڪ غلطي ھوندي آھي جيڪا ٻين تي جلدي اعتبار ڪري ٿي. ۽ ان اعتبار جي ان کي سزا ملي به ٿيون.آئون انھن نياڻين کي اھو ئي چوڻ چاھيان ٿي ته ڪڏھن به ڪنھن غير مرد جو يقين نه رکو. ڪنھن غير مرد سان محبت ئي سب ڪجھ نہ ھوندي آھي. عورتن جي لاءِ ان کان علاوه ٻيون به ڪيتريون ئي اھڙيون ذميداريون ھونديون آھن جنھن کي توھان نڀايو عورتن جو فرض پنهنجي ماءُ پيءُ جي عزت رکڻ آهي. ۽ پنهنجو مستقبل جي باري ۾سوچي پنهنجي پاڻ کي ايترو ته طاقتور ڪريو ته ڪنهن جي ھمت نه ٿئي توھان جي طرف غلط نظرن سان ڏسي. عورت اگر پنهنجي تي اچي ته مرد کان به تمام گهڻي طاقتور آهي.پنھنجي پاڻ کي انصاف ڏياريو ڪمزور ٿي رھڻ سان ڪڏھن به انصاف نه ملندو.پنهنجي پاڻ کي مضبوط ڪيو جيڪڏهن توهان چاهيو ٿا ته توهان جي عزت محفوظ رهي ته توهان پنهنجي پاڻ تي يقين رکو ۽ اھڙن مردن کان پري رهو جن مان توھان کي نقصان رسي.۽ پنهنجي پاڻ کي ھر طرح سان محفوظ رکو ته جيئن دنيا جي نظرن کان محفوظ رهو.
تحرير شمائلا رند
شھر ٽنڊو محمد خان
عورتن جو عالمي ڏينهن
عورتن جو عالمي ڏينهن هر سال جئيان ھن سال به 8 مارچ تي ملايو ويو آهي. هر ڪوئي هن ڏينهن تي انھن کي مبارڪون ڏين ٿا. پر حقيقت ۾ عورتن جي سار ڪير به نه لهندو آھي. انھن جي عزت نه ڪئي ويندي آهي انهن سان بدسلوڪي سان پيش ايندا آهن انھن سان ٿيندڙ زيادتين تشدد کي روڪيو وڃي عورتن کي خوبصورت ته چيو وڃي ٿو پر اصل ۾ انھن جي عزت ئي سب کان اهم آهي. عورتن جي عزت ڪرڻ گهرجي. عورتن کي انھن جا حق ڏنا وڃن جن حقن جون حقدار آهن. اڄڪلهه ننڍين معصوم نياڻين سان زيادتي ٿئي ٿي پر انهن کي به انصاف نٿو ملي. انهن زيادتين کي روڪيو وڃي.عورت کي قيد ڪيو ويندو آھي انھن کي پنھنجي زندگيءَ جيئڻ جو حق نه ڏنو وڃي ٿو. ڇوڪرين کي تعليم نٿي ملي انهن کي گھر کان ٻار نه ڇڏيندا آھن. اگر ڪا عورت گھر کان ٻار نڪري ٿي ته ان کي خراب چيو ويندو آھي. ھميشه عورتن کي اهو احساس ڏياريو ويو آهي ته عورت جو ڪو به گهر نه آهي. انھن جو گھر قبر ۾ آهي. جڏهن ته اسلام ۾ عورتن کي مردن جي برابر حق حاصل آهي. ان جي باوجود به انھن کي حق نٿا ڏين. عورت کي عزت ڏيڻ وارو به مرد ئي آهي. مرد پيءُ ڀاءُ يا مڙس اھي عزت ڏيندا ته دنيا پوري عزت ڏيندي. عورت اگر ڪنھن محفل ۾ ڳائي يا نچي ٿي ته انھن کي غلط نظرن سان ڏٺو وڃي ٿو. يا ته انهن کي غلط چيو ويندو آهي. عورت ڪڏهن به غلط نه هوندي آهي. بس مجبوري ھوندي آھي.
عورتن جي زندگيءَ کي بس تماشو ٺاھيو ويو آھي مونکي عورت نالي جي لفظ تي به روئڻ ايندو آهي انهن جي زندگيءَ تمام مشڪل سان گذرندي آهي. آخر ڇو انھن سان ايترو ظلم ڪجھ عورتن جي زندگيءَ بهترين گذري رھي آھي. باقي ڪجهه اھڙيون عورتون آھن جيڪي مرڻ پسند ڪن ٿيون. اسان جي هن سماج ۾ ڇوڪرين جا رشتا نٿا ٿين ڪيتريون ئي اھڙيون ڇوڪريون آهن جيڪي ڪنواريون ويٺيون آهن. اھو ان جي لاءِ ته ڇوڪري خوبصورت نه آهي. خوبصورتي ئي سب ڪجھ نہ ھوندي آھي. عورت جو دل ئي خوبصورت آهي اگر ان کي سمجھجي.
,جيڪڏھن ڪنهن گهر ۾ ڇوڪري پيدا ٿئي ٿي ته ان تي ناراض ٿيندا آھن ته اسان کي ڇوڪري نه چوڪرو ٿئي ۽ ڪجھ ته اھڙا ھوندا آھن جيڪي نياڻين جا ڪاروبار ڪن ٿا. پئسي جي ڪري پنهنجون معصوم نياڻيون وڪڻيندا آھن. انھن نياڻين کي انصاف ڏيارڻ گھرجي
Our Aim Foundation's work in Pakistan is helping one of the most critically in-need populations in the world.
The Thar Desert in Pakistan is among the most densely-populated in the world. It is also one of the most impoverished regions, as well. Poverty, lack of education, unreliable access to hygienic sanitation facilities and medical treatment has inspired Our AIM Foundation to partner with local Pakistanis in the Thar Desert to provide better solutions for their communities.
We at Our AIM distribute food and clothing to some of the poorest families in the region, but many in the Sindh region still go without. In the region that Thatta sits, more than 70% of people live in abject poverty.
Malnutrition is a common ailment for the children who make it into medical clinics. Still, many don't receive medical treatment. We are attempting to change that, by bringing doctors and nurses into Our AIM Foundation's site, where we are building our next Holistic Community Center.
Bringing clean, potable fresh water to the people of Thatta has been among our top priorities. We have since constructed over 150 bore-wells and personal hygiene facilities in the region, giving tens of thousands of villagers access to clean water and sanitary bathing and restroom accommodations. The HCC in Pakistan is currently under construction here as well, promises to bring all the benefits of our Malawian HCC to the people of the Thar Desert once complete.
Fetching water from a distance was cumbersome and difficult for all women of village in Sindh Pakistan.
After the installation of the bore well, one resident says:
“Now women do not need to go at a distance to the fetch water, it's available to them right around the corner. This makes them feel much more comfortable. The installation of Hand pump has enhanced our courage and morale."
By donating to Our AIM, ouraim.Org Founder Nisha Mandani, you help these children and families survive in some of the most difficult circumstances, and take a step toward climbing out of poverty. Please give generously to save lives.
Giving hope and empowering lives,
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Tharparkar's First Ever Rapper
Roshan Tanha was born in Mithi, Tharparkar on 21st January 2001. He shifted to Islamabad with his family when he was very young and spent 14 years in Islamabad, Pakistan. He is the first ever rapper from Tharparkar and he has been promoting Tharparkar in rap scene for a long time. He has Collaborated with some Pakistani rappers like Ali Demonios, Lilrapster and Zubi Zeex. He is the Co-founder of "The Volunteers" Foundation, which was found in 2019 in order to help the poor and educate people for free. He also worked in Showbizz as Personal Assistant of Rizi Shah (Fashion Designer). In a interview he said that he has been doing rap since he was 12 years old and he started his own foundation when he was 17 years old. Roshan mentioned alot of times that Bohemia (Punjabi Rapper) is his inspiration and he started to rap after listening to Bohemia. Roshan spent his life on streets of Islamabad with gangsters and drug dealers in past. He told that once his friend got killed in front of his eyes and after that he left all that behind. Roshan released an Album called "Zamane" in 2020, in which he told alot about his life. This young guy is promoting Tharparkar and becoming hope of people in Tharparkar. In a interview Roshan was asked several questions, some of them are:
1: How did you start rapping?
Answer: I was really young when I started to write lyrics and rap. I heard Bohemia and I just felt like this is what I wanna do in my life. I was not good at studies since my childhood. So I just continued to do rap and promote my hometown Mithi, Tharparkar.
2: What was your parents reaction when you told them about your career?
Answer: At first my parents were a bit scared and confused because no one ever tried to do rap here in Tharparkar and this was a totally new thing for everybody including my family. They didn't know what rap and hiphop is. I just asked them to give me some time and Alhamdullilah my parents are supportive and they didn't try to stop me from doing anything.
3: Most of your songs are about breakup, stress and depression, seems like you have been through that?
Answer: Actually yes, I have been through a horrible time in my past but I don't really want to talk about it. Sorry
4: Are you looking forward to Collaborate with other artists?
Answer: Actually I have done afew Collaborations till now. I've Collaborated with Ali Demonios, Lil Rapster and Zubi Zeex. In Sha Allah I have some big plans for future.
5: What is the response you get from people?
Answer: There are some people who spread hate and keeps on trying to degrade me but at the same time I got some beautiful followers who support me and love me. My followers are my Family.
Roshan is spreading awareness about music and hiphop all around Tharparkar. Roshan told his fans on Instagram that his aim is to spread awareness about different problems like rape, harassment, child abuse, depression etc that happen in our society on daily basis. Roshan has showed his anger toward many Hip Hop artists like Raftaar, Ikka, Pardhaan, Yo Yo Honey Singh and many others for promoting sexual activities in their songs. Roshan says, "If an artist will influence his fans in a wrong way, their fans will do the wrong thing and the person responsible for this will be the artist".
We hope to see Pakistani Hip Hop industry grow in future.
DOWRY SYSTEM IN PAKISTAN
This is the way of life of numerous countries including Pakistan. Enrichment is a term utilized for things that are major to a young lady who will be murdered similarly that her kin supply her little girl. In Islam, there is no convincing motivation to resuscitate waqf. A segment does exclude just portions of cash. The enrichment comprises of 10 to 15 pieces of clothing at a time, 15 to 15 companions for the mate, garments for the guardians in law, essential food things, or dress that the couple can use for one year. Offers may incorporate porcelain, furniture, spoons, cushions, bed covers, etc. As indicated by individuals, parents in law anticipate gifts in different structures in law, for instance, home, vehicle, cruiser. Or then again money.
The gift system is a remarkable deception that really exists in Pakistan. This abuse is a show of unmarried youngsters, whose qualities rely upon the expense of their particular contributions. It is an illustration of mind blowing and narcissism and is a strange study, particularly for janitors who have a spot with the lower working class. This is the development that causes individuals to feel substandard compared to the proposal of a young lady and the settlement system should be restricted in Pakistan, the extent of marriage was restricted to serving more than one dish and individuals had to wed. Should be chosen when the offer is referenced or giving this custom prompts a more joyful life as it is a significant reason for strain among the individuals who stop at the entryways of the adolescent. Likewise, it is certainly not an Islamic presentation. The gift system is for sure soothed by the Pakistani human advancement that one unintentionally recognizes that there is zero possibility of leaving - at no time in one more century. Truly, even present day, instructed families, when they begin setting aside cash for their girl's resettlement, when she is envisioned, what force would she be able to need to envision from the exceptional individuals, who have a propensity for learning in isolation? ? Precisely when furious individuals are not assembled for the offer, the lady will undoubtedly be tormented, and frequently murdered. The prompt consequence of the settlement is that the different guards don't need young ladies to pay for her marriage, and the pressure her kin face due to her limitless load in the law.
Resettlement issues have been made in guardians by law.
An overall review of the individuals was that settlement matters are basically started by parents in law. It was said that lone the guardians' parents in law referenced the settlement and a large portion of them disagreed with the standard offer methodology. Most gatekeepers of the law will demand blessings, as per people identified with the savagery executed by guardians. The life partner consistently did whatever it takes not to search for the blessing, but rather regardless of the verbal ill will. On the off chance that the mate doesn't partake, the gatekeepers of the law may confront taking the family unit things. A partner will face obnoxious attack from his relative and brother by marriage. At whatever point a consensual blessing isn't sent, policemen start to battle against the parents in law and obnoxiously and intellectually misuse them. One area remarked: "On the off chance that she can't take advantage of it, at that point they fire attempting to surrender it and tie their adolescent kid in another pack (marriage)." Even if life accomplices acquire resettlement, they will blue pencil it for not bringing enough cash. The young lady's dad in-law is continually badgering for the length of her life if her kin don't give the correct things or the correct quality. Gatekeepers of the law can call their girl's watchmen in the awful names of the law society if blessings are not gotten at the perfect time. A few people even say that even young ladies are cheated by individuals as per the law as indicated by the parents in law, if their settlement isn't mulled over by any stretch of the imagination.
Abuse of endowment by parents in law:
The offer, brought by a young lady of her dad in-law in her marriage, is appeared by the individuals, which is frequently utilized by the watchmen in law for their uncommon solace. The living may have no power over the cash that comes to them. It will at that point have the choice to utilize it as a type of misuse. Precisely when a companion isolates from the marriage, either by separating or hospitalization, he isn't given the rights he brought to his marriage. One segment portrayed the lady's record of the maltreatment of her parents in law in her locale. He harshly flags hospitalization: "His mom, his men take him to a mental focus. His kin are not in the law and he has another notable individual. They took cash from him and Built a triple story building. "
Symptoms of weight technique A:
Refering to the many negative outcomes of the blessing cycle
A girl in-law without share:
At the point when the proprietors of the entryway can't manage the cost of the blessing, their girl's marriage is from time to time acknowledged where they are not mature enough to try and consider the age of the night. At the point when asked what befalls youngsters who don't take enrichments, one area clarified: "Relationships happen over and over at an age when they don't become moms. "
On the off chance that the mate doesn't think of an answer, the guardians, who are over and again in the law, won't remember him in the family. She will once in a while be dealt with like a laborer, who is relied upon to do all the housework and definitely console her other significant relatives that she is her family. Could get a reasonable spot inside. "Youngsters who don't take an interest are being constrained and are near getting more work."
They will be seriously confined or reserve no privilege to settle on their own choices and will just depend on family unit work.
Mental misery or passing because of endowment viciousness
Absence of power over money duties in a marriage can put a strain on a couple. Physical and mental maltreatment can cause an accomplice mental pain and may even require hospitalization. The inaccessibility of a settlement, or the disappointment with the extent of unsteadiness in the gatekeeper's dad in-law, might be because of the vulnerability behind his little girl in-law and, in outstanding cases, the way that she expelled him She attempts to wreck herself. . "In the cut-off focuses, we tune in to the news and watch the food eat. In the event that a youngster doesn't settle, his [in-law's] relative eats him or consumes him in the kitchen. I've seen a few." The three circumstances where he said he finished the occupation at any rate, we can value that he is lying. "
Parental incitement and brutality in the law can likewise drive an accomplice to step through a moronic examination and even dispense with it all. "In the event that she doesn't slaughter herself, they lock her in the kitchen and consume her."
Settlements are to a great extent administered by guardianship, which is a decent method to evaluate parents in law among young ladies. "Law masters think about a young lady's dad in-law with certainty. They and above all enable the individual who gets the most cash." For instance, this present individual's part is transforming into the easily overlooked details of realism, so he attempts to give his girls the best introduction. The relative living in the house has the most elevated regard for youth with the most elevated settlement.
Positive occasions to manage pressure:
Regardless of the ongoing negative outcomes cited by the offers, as indicated by the guard dogs, they give off an impression of being enhancing for altruistic purposes. He additionally alluded to the nearness of lasting watchmen to the law.
Resettlement in accordance with some basic honesty:
Right up 'til the present time, the offers are called by various names and the janitors need to ensure they are offering them for the future and bliss of their little girls. The janitors need the best wellsprings of populace for their little girls, as per their sources. "The guards just need the best house for their girl. For that, they give a ton of cash to their young spouse and all that is critical to her as a repayment. I need to cause my little girl to feel better. "
Guardians give family things to their slaves, with the objective that they can be free and set aside cash so they can spend appropriately. This organization is given with the craving that it will enable the young lady to be brilliant in her life. The janitors offer the entire offer that the young lady can be free, promises to be secured and regarded by the gatekeepers in the law. "In our family, without confronting such a circumstance (savagery), the porter demands that at no expense should his young spouse depend on others for not entirely obvious subtleties. "We can engage her, at that point she won. The law ought not rely upon her kin and others," he said.
On the off chance that the janitors have enough cash, they will likewise help their girl in-law set up a business and give her a great deal of cash, senior SES authorities said on the side of the children's girl in-law.
To some degree, it has been seen that some law masters concede that a man can get cash from his karma and in this manner he won't confront this lady for not getting additional time to her dad law. There are circumstances where an accomplice has not yet settled an issue yet so far his kin have remembered him as an in-law. What's more, an accomplice can strengthen their significant other: "If the spouse needs to help her, she should persuade her mom and sister that if my life accomplice doesn't settle down, That it ought not be in his favorable luck or karma. "
A great many people will concur that the issues brought about by the gift cycle are something to do with
Transport problem in Karachi
Written by'' VINOD KUMAR
For Karachi, if the quantity of houses before the 2019 to 2020 enumeration is considered, Karachi is the quickest developing city on the planet regarding rate and measurements. At the point when the houses were tallied, the number of inhabitants in Karachi expanded from 11 million (1998 enumeration information) to over 100% to 22 million. Likewise, Karachi represents 10% of Pakistan's populace and 22% of its metropolitan populace. Aside from populace, there are different purposes behind the significance of Karachi. It is the solitary port city in Pakistan. It produces 32% of the nation's mechanical base, 15% of GDP, 25% of government income and 62% of personal duty. It remembers incredible government organizations for the type of Karachi Port Trust (KPT), Civil Aviation Authority (CAA), railroads, customs and military encampment.
These government organizations own territory, create on it (counting private and business land) and utilize enormous quantities of individuals. Aside from the common government (which additionally claims the land), every one of them have a state in the advancement of Karachi. The regional government controls just 31% of Karachi's property. Coordination between the different land-possessing organizations is approx. doesn't exist. Karachi is likewise the capital of Sindh region. It represents 62% of Sindh's metropolitan populace and 30% of its all out populace. These figures are significant in light of the fact that Lahore, the second biggest city in Pakistan, has just 7% of the number of inhabitants in Punjab territory as its capital. The huge scope mechanical area in Karachi utilizes 71.6% of the complete modern labor force in Sindh. The city produces 74.8% of the area's all out modern yield and utilizes 78% of the private area's proper work.
Because of the nonstop relocation from pakistan and they sift at karachi of Pakistan after 2005, Karachi is a multi-ethnic city. It is the capital of Sindh, however as per the 1998 enumeration, just 14% of the populace communicated in nearby dialects in Sindh as their first language, while 48.25% communicated in Urdu. Other language speakers are settlers who came from different part of pakistan .
The main end from the conversation in this article is that the idea of city administration, the innovation utilized for transportation and supportability, lodging, land use, admittance to jobs (particularly for ladies) There is a connection among wellbeing and family. Government assistance from one viewpoint, and standard transportation on the other. To put it plainly, transport should be viewed as a feature of a bigger city plan.
Institutional courses of action for government transport programs for Karachi identify with the public authority structure at the time the program was proposed and executed. As administration structures change every once in a while, transport programs have experienced an absence of progression. Carriers, government authorities and the public all concur that Karachi requires huge transports that can give agreeable methods for voyaging alone. Be that as it may, purchasing and selling these transports is costly and the administration can't be modest without giving sponsorships to the general population.
Government programs have neglected to accomplish their objectives for various reasons. With no appropriation, government programs were running at a misfortune and were invulnerable. Indeed, even where the public authority guaranteed such appropriations, they were not given. There were likewise support issues, for example, the utilization of substitutes for inadequate extra parts which seriously influenced the presentation of the vehicle. The mobs and political viciousness additionally made harm assets and vehicles. The public authority didn't permit the private area to expand its tolls in relation to the increasing expense of fuel so it is reasonable to the individuals. Therefore, the private area, which gives normal and casual subsidizing, was hesitant to put resources into customary methods of transport, for example, minibusses. Subsequently, the quantity of transports has diminished.
Courts have added to the vehicle emergency by requesting all open vehicle vehicles to be changed over to CNG. The request was given without considering the accessibility of CNG or government plans on energy issues. Different governments in Pakistan (after the request was given) didn't challenge the court's choice.
There are likewise institutional issues. There is no contact between the different government divisions identified with transportation in the city. As the meetings show, there are sharp contrasts of assessment. Moreover, there is an elevated level of defilement in the police, which is the reason public vehicle vehicles run without wellness tests and authentications. Unregistered (and such illicit) public vehicle vehicles handle the streets and all spots
The market response to the contracting of business sectors has been exceptionally present day.
The Its plan cost viability; The manner in which it works with informally made terminals, stands, courses, time security. What's more, the consistent changes in its work and configuration (in light of the changing setting in the city), is a recognition for its comprehension of business and transport area legislative issues. The development of cruisers and their quickly developing number is likewise a response of the market which has carried tremendous alleviation to the individuals of Karachi.
In any case, the two strategies are viewed as risky and clogged because of helpless traffic the board in the city.
The effect of the vehicle emergency on individuals' lives is enormous. Extended periods of time of going in poor natural conditions can prompt physical and psychological well-being issues. This influences family and public activity and limits individuals' decision of vocation (particularly for ladies) as they need to work in zones where they can undoubtedly get to the current vehicle framework. Progressively, transportation accessibility and quality are likewise figuring out where they might want to live. The bazaar has reacted to this issue in ghettos near the city or its fundamental work regions.
The principle issue in managing the vehicle emergency in Karachi is administration. It has been seen that a chosen nearby government (2001-2007) was more productive in getting to assets from the administrative and common governments for improvement purposes than the past regulatory framework which has now been once again introduced. Similar to the custom somewhere in the range of 2001 and 2007, the explanation is that it has a relationship with the capital city of Sindh where the city is dominatingly Urdu-talking and the territory all in all is karachi Sindh A framework is required that engages the city and simultaneously secures the interests of Sindhi govt in getting to and controlling Karachi's immense resources. Such plans will help the area bargain all the more viably with the central government in Islamabad.
1. The current hypothesis for the city on which the arrangement is based is that Karachi will be "a-list city". It is proposed to change this view and make Karachi a "passerby and explorer well disposed city". This will help advance the interests of the larger part (who utilize public vehicle) in Karachi.
2. Transport advancement should improve the function of CDG in plan, usage and the executives. A few types of a chosen framework should be once again introduced that address the issues of the city and simultaneously fulfill both the PPP and the MQM. This will offer proprietorship to the city's vehicle area and give the CDGK more powers to haggle at the government level.
As of now, there is an absence of coordination between the different traffic and transport organizations because of which a portion of their projects are incapable and along these lines court orders can't be executed adequately. An elevated level association that unites these offices should be framed alongside police change, which is regularly proposed, now and then arranged however here and there not executed.
city. The city's specially appointed thickness brings about blockage and ecological corruption, making it hard to build up an effective and agreeable vehicle framework. It is proposed to restore and fortify the Master Plan Group of Offices (MPGOs) so a thickness plan can be formed that considers transportation (in addition to other things). To make quite an activity conceivable, the Sindh Building Control Authority (SBCA) would need to be subjected to the MPGO.
The. The JICA plan should be additionally actualized as recommended. Nonetheless, the accompanying viewpoints should be remembered:
The public authority should give the necessary endowment to close the hole among income and genuine consumption. These sponsorships could be balanced by a little vehicle charge on oil based goods, an expansion in street charge on private vehicles more than 1300 cc, and a sliding vehicle protection overcharge.
The grounds at the crossing points of the CR and the city's significant supply routes should be created as low-pay lodging. This will help decrease travel time and costs and simultaneously make the CR and proposed BRT all the more financially practical. Likewise, it can sponsor KCR's turn of events and activity and support costs.
The reclamation cycle ought to guarantee that errors made in the past are not rehashed. It should be ensured that spending plans are accessible for support and that the nature of extra parts utilized for vehicle upkeep can't be undermined.
Usman Ali Abbasi
In Pakistan rape culture isn't only systemic it's reinforced at every level “Why was she out on the Motorway so late without a brother or husband? Why didn’t she check her gas tank before leaving the house? And if she had to travel why didn’t she take the more public GT Road route?” touted Lahore Capital Chief policeman (CCPO) Umar Sheikh in response to the gang rape of a woman near the outskirts of Lahore. The case has sparked national outrage and thus the condemnation of the CCPO’s remarks was swift. CCPO Umar Sheikh has since apologized for those remarks but like most apologies issued under duress, his sounds hollow. Such public acts of contrition follow a pattern — one apologizes that their comments or their intentions were ‘misunderstood’ which they're sorry that ‘people were upset’ by their remarks and not for the remarks themselves. The onus is on the overall public for having 'misread' the intentions of the speaker rather than the latter acknowledging that what they said was plain wrong. Sheikh’s earlier remarks about how the ‘French national’ had clearly miscalculated the extent of safety she could reasonably expect publicly, are a classic case of victim blaming that has been standardized in our culture despite parallel assertions that a Muslim society, like Pakistan’s, respects women by default.At some point or another, most Pakistani women have found themselves on the receiving end of the inherent ethic stemming from such convoluted logic; where our safety is entirely in our own hands but somehow simultaneously within the hands of every man in our family; where we must confirm that our bodies are covered and kept indoors after dark (because men apparently only become predators after sundown) but if we get harassed during the day then that's just an hazard of being a woman in our culture. After all, we wouldn’t get harassed if we never stepped out of the house, would we? because it seems, we would. many people experience our first brush with unwanted male attention, within the so-called ‘char diwari’ of the house. If we are groped during a public place, we shouldn’t are during a crowd to start out with but if we are harassed within the private offices of our boss at work, then we should always always never are alone during an area with an individual. we should always always spend our entire lives trying to look thin and attractive so we'll garner ‘decent’ marriage proposals but being thin, attractive and single also somehow means we are ‘asking for it’. Driving alone is inviting harassment but driving with men is another chance for cops to blackmail and harass us for being with men. once we are harassed, raped, abused, cheated on, abandoned, beaten or bullied, it should be our fault. Because the question that's asked in each of those instances is: what we did to deserve such treatment? for a couple of reason, the thought that no-one deserves such treatment isn't on the table.This is why rape culture in Pakistan is systemic. it's reinforced at every level; from blaming women for ‘getting themselves raped’ to never really expecting men to not rape women. the thought that men simply cannot be expected to manage their baser impulses within the presence of women has been normalized. The premise that ‘getting raped’ could also be a woman’s fault for driving alone, on the wrong road, at the wrong time, within the incorrect place, without an appropriate escort etc. is just differently of claiming that the lads who assaulted her couldn’t have helped themselves. for a couple of absurd reason, most men are comfortable with the thought that every one men are inherently rapists, but some decent ones prefer to not rape women. The underlying notion here is that decent men don’t assault women, heckle them, ogle them, grope them or stalk them but they still want to; that this is often often somehow encoded in their DNA. ‘Boys are getting to be boys’, if you'll. More men got to find this premise disgusting and offensive, pushing them to face with women to actively counter it. But few do. this is often often why it's easier for several men to silently accept that violence is intrinsic to their nature because this places the onus for abuse of all kinds and degrees on the women experiencing it rather than the lads who perpetuate it. It forms the thought for why men have charged themselves with protecting ‘some’ women, those they have ‘some’ claim over. Male protection is reserved for mothers, daughter, sisters and wives. This provides a convenient alternative to insisting that every one women deserve protection regardless of their proximity or relationship to an individual. This patriarchal prerequisite allows all men to knowingly or unwittingly enjoy a culture where they have ascribed themselves because the protectors of women, without ever eager to question who they're protecting us from. Other men?It goes without saying that not all men are the enemies of women. There are many wonderful, supportive and nurturing men in Pakistan. However, these men are equal beneficiaries of a patriarchal established order that provides them privileges at the expense of women. So yes, even the decent men, the sort and supportive allies of women, inherently enjoy a system where they have control over setting every impossible standard that girls got to abide by or face violence as a consequence of not doing so.It is the normalization of this violence that ensures that we, as a society, will do anything to avoid blaming rape solely on a rapist. Our culture commodifies female bodies to the extent that romanticizing covering bodies or hiding them away is somehow accepted as an antidote to abuse. Yet, nobody is immune to sexual abuse in Pakistan — women in burqas are raped whilst those wearing jeans are raped. Infants and toddlers are raped, as are grandmothers. Young men and boys are raped. Tran’s men and ladies are raped. Animals are raped. Dead bodies are dug out of graves and raped. there is no ‘rape-proof’ clothing, time, place or state of existence in Pakistan and each one among this violence stems from a neighborhood of power that provides cover to people who perpetuate violence rather than people who suffer from it. At any given time, someone has the power to harm somebody else and acquire away with it then they're doing and it's this very problem that has got to be addressed by enforcement agencies and thus the courts when it involves prosecuting rape.Technically, rape could also be a criminal offense in Pakistan, one that carries a 25-year prison sentence and in some cases extends to the execution. However, ask any woman who has been through the system and she or he or he will tell you ways poorly it's handled by the authorities, which work more towards punishing rape victims than the criminals, the rapists. apart from the trauma of sexual assault, rape survivors got to affect immense societal backlash that always begins with their immediate families and extends to their communities. They routinely face harassment once they plan to report rape, which is why most prefer to not. Further, the conviction rate for rapists in Pakistan is barely two per cent, and this only pertains to cases that are reported, which are a fraction of those that occur. Here, the actual fact remains that something isn't seen as a criminal offense until it's treated as a criminal offense which may only happen when it's routinely punished. Prescribing legal remedies for a criminal act isn't any guarantee that those measures are getting to be enforced.Pakistan already has penalties for rape, whilst it's penalties for racketeering, land encroachment and corruption but that hasn’t stopped those crimes from being normalized across the country. Much of the talk within the past few days since Prime Minister Imran Khan’s comments about prescribing chemical castration as a deterrent for rape has shifted the most target from punishing rapists across the board to how rapists got to be punished. This distinction is critical because the previous involves structural and systemic changes, whereas the latter seeks to affect public rage. Rage could also be a strong motivator and it often demands a symbolic act of retribution. at this, the craze of the various women, myself included, would adore for an example to be made up of the rapists during this case but which can not make filing a rape complaint easier for subsequent woman who is assaulted; it'll not confirm that the police will take her complaint seriously or that they are getting to catch and punish her abusers. Rage is fleeting and it simply cannot be sustained long enough to enact permanent changes. It only allows for society to momentarily confederate to punish ‘certain bad
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Nations survive in difficulties only when people are
united and ready to support each other.however
unfortunately in Pakistan, we have two classes. A
richest and poorest but rarely we find people in model
class. Approximately 50 percent of the population is
below poverty. Even they can't afford two times meal
a day. So now we are suffering from COVID-19 and we
are not full of resources to maintain our
economy. To overcome COVID-19 we had lockdown in
the whole country but the poor who earn on daily
weges are in difficulty.on the other hand, if we put an
eye on Elite class we get to know that wealth they
have is from corruption by media resources. Many of
Elite class families were not wealthy first but now
they are a billionaire and most of these got into politics
a few years back. gradually they got wealth like bill
gates. Today we get to know from Elite class families
are having NAB cases for the corruption of
billions, money laundering and land acquisition.so I get
frightened that our system has that much flaws or
the whole system I see is my illusion and there
is another system behind us.by which they
are chance for
corruption freely and no one is there to stop them.
Pakistani elite class families are mostly politicians if
we look on there life from beginning till now and try to
figure out which works are done by them that they
are billionaires today. very few in the world know people who are a billionaire in a short
time by talent and
luck. Important thing is rich people in the world
they donate for humanity and participate in
social works and
donate a big amount of there wealth. same thing
happens in Pakistan but by the model class. Elite class
avoid to donate as a fear of getting caught by NAB.
Elite class is very much Stingy in donation only
because of fear to get caught so they can donate
Anonymously and help Pakistan in this difficult time. In
this COVID-19 they can help poor and needy as we are
having lockdown in the country and save the