Self Confidence: Islāmabād
Today in class, it was our english lesson when the teacher started asking questions.
She signaled a girl to stand up and answer the question.
When the girl answered the teacher said "Are you sure?"
At that moment even though her answer was correct she began biting her lip and evidently started doubting herself.
That there is lack of self confidence.
Now what is the difference in between Confidence and self confidence?
Confidence is the ability to speak out loud, to speak your mind to the world, whereas, self confidence is the positivity that one feels when he is speaking, self confidence is that voice inside of you that says "You are right, you can do this!" you don't have to be an extrovert to have that feeling, you just have to feel good and strong about yourself.
Gaining self confidence isn't easy I admit that, cause I know that everyone doubts themselves even though they know they are right.
Though some people do have it but majority of the people don't have it... they overthink and doubt themselves, weather its about their appearance, something they said or did anything.
Even the most confident of people do it, but the difference is that they have learned to ignore that negative voice inside that says "Oh really? Are you sure? What if you fail?"
But that voice is wrong!
We are all creations of Allah and we are perfect in our own way.
You know? most people are generally shy when they lack self confidence. Not that being shy is a bad thing, but what im trying to say is that even if you prefer to stay quiet and unnoticed you should feel good about your decisions, the things you do and when needed speak. Speak in such a way that it makes a dynamic impact.
Im saying bury those insecure voices inside of you because they are wrong.
Stop doubting yourself and knw that the decision you made was the one you saw right in your situation.
All of us are special if not in one way then the other if not there then the other, all of us are special so stop hurting yourself from the inside and man up.
No one ever became a great person by doubting themselves, they all believed in themselves even after failing so many times.
So bury all those voices inside you, it may be hard but it is a war we all have to fight in ourselves.
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Goals in life:
Joining the senior wing all of our relatives ask us one question too often,
"So what do you want to be?"
Honestly, there are a lot of people who know what they want or their interests are forced to one stream, while these guys have a clear goal there are those left off like me,
I really don't know what profession should i take, what stream should I choose and I know there are a lot more like me out there. While my family is extremely supporting, there could be those who are being criticized over not knowing what they want.
But then there are more categories, some of us have really no goal at all while others have a goal that does specify our professional life, like the second one my goal is to fight for rights of human beings that are not being provided, I want to be a light of hope for those who have lost it.
My family is often telling me,
"You need a powerful post so that people will listen to and value your words."
But really what are we to do?
I say follow your heart and work hard so that when the time comes we have a wide range of options to choose from and regret nothing.
Forget all the criticizers and relatives who tell you to set a straight goal,
Of course it is vital to think about it from time to time but if you still are unsure it doesn't have to be that way, find something that suits you and go with it!
WRITTEN BY: Anonymous
A message to the women of the nation:
The current happenings in Pakistan have really showed us us women where we stand according to men huh?
Why do men think if Allah almighty referred to us females as delicate they can assault us and rape us for money? Do they really think we can do nothing?
What I want to say the women all over the country is to become stronger and find a way to fight because the devil will not stop till the day of judgment, it is time we raise our voice and show these rapists, kidnappers and whatever that you made a huge mistake messing with us.
In the past many powerful women have made their name haven't they? It was because they left no room for weakness, it is time we become like them , strong and confident. It is time we show the world the true power us women hold within us,
Written by: Anonymous
PAKISTANI EDUCATION SYSTEMS TODAY:
As a school student myself no one could be more familiar to our education system than I am, and honestly speaking I am not satisfied by the system.
Yesterday afternoon, me and my mother were talking while my three year old siblings were happily playing till suddenly one of them said something extremely silly. That made me say that whatever the cost I will never let their imagination die.
Not a few seconds later my mother asked
"Are you not satisfied by your school?"
"No mama not at all"
"Why?" she asked me.
Why? Because schools today are so very narrow minded, everything is to be by the book all the answers to be learned word to word and there is no room for anything new.
So many times in class students are considered to have given the wrong answer just because they had changed it's wording. Today getting first place means you are smart and failing means you are dumb, but really what I think is that the children who fail really have more important things to do than sit down and memorize something you never really understood .And really this was the one reason I never got first place in really anything.
Today schools are killing the imagination, curiosity and common sense among students.
I'm sure a lot of us can relate to hearing students call for the examiner to explain that one question that had a bit of wording changed. Students today have become so used to being word to word that they have completely lost the ability to just sit and think something through.
In my opinion, a major reason to Pakistan's downfall is that now everyone is so used to getting the answers before hand that now most of us can't think "out of the box" that we were taught to stay in since preschool.
Another influence this has on students and even me, is the lack of confidence.
So many times so many students in class are being scolded and taunted for sharing their opinion. I believe all of us have heard these words too often
"Are you the teacher or am I?"
"No no no beta you can come here and teach the class yourself I'll be on my way huh?"
This is just an indirect signal to us that means
"Shut up your opinion neither wanted nor needed."
After all that the heads will still lecture us every single day of the week to build up some confidence and get on stage.
During this pandemic, staying away from our schools I have seen this positive change in myself and thus I am writing here.
There is so much more that is to be said but for this article all I request is a little independence for students to share their opinion, to not be judged by our competition prizes and to be given a chance in extra curricular activities even though our bad grades.
Written by: Anonymous.
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MOTORWAY INCIDENT .. FORGOTTEN OR NEGLECTED ???
The incident that shook the nation and had a grip on everyone across the nation is fading away from the memories of the people of Pakistan and especially Lahore. While one of the two criminals still remain at large despite the manhunt conducted by the punjab police.The biggest question we now face is that will this incident be forgotten and neglected like every other incidents that caused an uproar for some time and vanish in the minds of public within few days or will our government will use this incident to take some firm steps to put an end to these inhumane activities once in for all.
In all this scenario one thing is evident that our police and judicial system is as weak as it can be and our political system also failed to play its part in solving this heart wrenching incident.
And finally the question still remain when will our political establishment take some firm action and make a proper laws to avoid such incidents and when will we as a nation stop causing "few days enthusiasm" and then suffer from a short term memory loss.
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Cyber security: a key differentiator for securing data in SAP
As the technology evolves, data has become so important to modern business when being hosted on essential SAP applications. This Software is a set of instructions, data, or programs that is responsible for producing leading-edge customer relationship management and tracking tools for businesses of all kinds with generalized data handling solutions.
In recent times SAP applications have experienced a rapid rise in malicious Cyberattacks like screen-grabbing techniques and hacking tools like Dridex that all the establishments and organizations need to be aware of. It comes to notice that these kinds of suspicious threats against systems have dramatically increased more complexity, compromising of information security of the organizations and even governments, institutes worldwide. Not every company admits their weakness of security knowledge in the wider corporate structure to safeguard share price and expensive remedial investment. So anyone who uses SAP software and has not invested in security solutions is assuring a risk.
A small and large business enterprise has reported serious instances of unauthorized access to the system information or security breach by the cybercriminals. Amid the rapidly growing cases of such malicious activities, Cyber security measures are abuzz with talks around how dynamically the world data around us can be protected. The worldwide excitement around Cyber security is on the verge of hitting a crescendo with effective roll-outs happening all across from small to medium enterprises. Business is increasingly being done over the networks, so it becomes the need of hours for every single entity or the business to assume the importance of Cyber security for protecting sensitive data or information on SAP. Many new-age digital enterprises or several verticals like healthcare, educational institute, banking system, and the IT sector technological prowess of security are working round the clock to prevent foray of miscreants. Therefore, it becomes crucial for the organizations or the companies to proactively reassess their security measures to enhance the capabilities of SAP with Cyber security.
Let’s talk a bit more about the quick and recommended solution to achieve peace of mind by minimizing the risk of a catastrophic data breach.
Patches and updates
All the above else, it is essential for the organization to update its systems systematically. In may be difficult to tempt the updates if the pc requires downtime when you are installing patches.
It’s also worth noting that SAP offers support packs which are usually a combination of multiple patches and it is beneficial to catch up missed updates.
Regular audit of SAP
It is all-important for the organizations to ensure that the code which underlies the SAP is fit for the purpose or not. A language called ABAP on which this software works and relatively few organizations possess the skills to audit ABAP. So don’t run away if you are lacking in beef up security measures, you are just a call away to the proven professionals.
Multiply the security by placing Cyber security for SAP, as it becomes more necessity than an accessory.