All publications of Hadiqa Nazish Raja . پاڑاچنار , Pākistān
- Why the women’s value is essentially judged on basis of the happiness of other people? They are only good if they keep others happy otherwise they are cursed. Why women have to prove themselves as a good mother, a good wife, a good daughter etc. by sacrificing themselves? Women may have their own dreams to achieve that are neglected on the way to keep everyone happy around them. Women are not allowed to think about their own dreams without being approved by the others. They can’t progress professionally because they have to stay at home .To please others is only their fate otherwise they will be judged in a wrong way. This society has made women confined to the mentality that they are nothing without others. I want to change the concept of women and this society who are unaware of the women power. I have dreams to fulfill, and i will never give up my dreams for others. My dreams are more important to me rather than pleasing the society who will never bother me until i do something extraordinary. I literally can’t spend my life with tag that i am good because i keep others happy, instead i wanna have my internal happiness by fulfilling my aims rather than drowning them for others. Yes, I am that woman who can’t let other people to determine my worth and value, on basis of which i may be declared a feminist. Okay then, i am the feminist. I am that feminist whose concept about women power will change your concept of the women’s weakness by which you try to overwhelm them,confine them in cage to neglect their own aims and goals and force them to keep others happiness their prime priority. It’s a request from society to let us live as we want to, without restrictions so that we can achieve our goals with freedom rather that thinking about others all the time.