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"Inspiring Story of Noshee"
Interview based my article.
Noshee is the human Right activist and social media activist
Question number 1 noshee Now days as you know that people are getting upset you think behinds all these social media ?
I am amazed at many things. When I see people around me, they get upset over small things. They give up. They have a justification for everything. Or maybe they justify it. I know my image here on Facebook. People who don't know me have opinions about me. They think I'm addicted to lavish Life. So maybe I never broke a single straw. Maybe I have no other job but to hang out or meet friends. And maybe I'm a very non-serious type woman who sticks to the worlds.
In fact, if they all know what life has done to me, then you may not believe it. But all these things broke me, of course, then the same things also make me what I am today .Maybe if this had not happened to me, I would not become what I am today . I would have been an ordinary woman who wanted drama, branded clothes or jewelry. Someone can't understand people's accents and words better than me. My children, except for the fact that I am a Broken family child and do not know anything. I have never told them my sorrows. And why should I tell them
Question 2 why don't you tell your children that it happened to you ?
Why should I spoil their childhood? If it was the fault of my elders, then why should my children be sad or get depressed . I live with my children just like friends. Even those who meet me can never say that I got depressed or I have seen it. The only reason is to be positive. Believe me, positive thinking does not allow you to fail. I have not been very successful. But if I look back ten years from today, there is a clear difference.
Question 3 I am very curious to know that what life did to you? and share you life ups and downs as you know that people may get through this help.
a small incident happen to people. They feel that lost everything .
I fall into despair. I think of dying. I have gone through all these phases. Therefore, I claim that these are all the most futile activities. Life is really the name of liveliness. And live it with liveliness. I have endured a lot in my life. I have worked very hard. I have gained a lot of experience. A woman who has endured accidents, kidnappings, hearth explosions, surgeries, fractures. And loaded gun put on me and said that If you do not obey, you will not survive. who has tried to take her own life eight or nine times. Imprisonment, sanctions, oppression, all have endured. I saw my Dreams of education and career are will not Fulfilled in front of my eyes.
your face cannot be like this"Saeed Sir told me in a meeting that your greatness is that no matter how many abuses life has done to you But when look at your face can't believe this that happened to you."
I Set up jewelery stalls. bed sheets. Set up henna stalls. Make hotel meals. In which I found out that my kitchen can work. I am never ashamed. Why should I be ashamed. What a shame in hard work. So I have whom people can understand me . They really value me.
So the purpose of telling this is only that don't stop trying. If you have to do any work, do it diligently. Don't be afraid of hard work. Then I will say that people should learn from KFC Babaji's story. One hundred time try and once you will be succeed in life. Live life Believe in love. Love is the oxygen for you. Never let your inner child die. Because the same inner child gives you the desire to live. Learn to express what you feel.
Question 4 How do you deal with your strange Facebook friends and they don't get tired to your posts or any suggestion for them ?
Never feel ashamed to learn. And another thing that people here are tired of my daily Facebook activities . Let them know that one day I will leave here in complete silence. Facebook or social media until then. As long as there are responsibilities on my head. When they are fulfilled, I just have to spend time with myself. Or with the friends who are standing with me today. Those who are not judgmental. Until then, let me bear my worlds and my selfies. And what I do in hammering.Understand this. Open the doors of closed minds and start living.
Live and let live
Last Question any message for your social media friends and followers ?
Note ... Don't ask me for any details or references. When I have to write my autobiography when I grow up, I should have the material for it. So why not consider the message instead of asking questions