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تحریک لبیک پاکستان اور حکومت پاکستان کے درمیان مذاکرات کا آغاز
لاہور میں جاری احتجاج کے شرکاء کی طرف سے ملک بھر میں ہڑتال کی اپیل کے بعد حکومت پاکستان نے احتجاج کرنے والوں سے مذاکرات کا اندیہ دیا ہے ۔حکومت پاکستان یہ مذاکرات اتنی جانوں اور املاک کے نقصان کے بغیر بھی کر سکتی تھی ۔برسر اقتدار تحریک انصاف کی حکومت تحریک لبیک پاکستان کی بڑھتی ہوی عوام میں مقبولیت سے خایف ہے حکومتی عہدیاروں کو یہ خوف ہے کہ آنے والے الیکشن میں تحریک لبیک پاکستان پارلیمنٹ میں برتری نہ حاصل کر لے اس خوف میں مبتلا پاکستان میں برسر اقتدار تحریک انصاف کے وزرا ایسے ایسے اقدامات اٹھا رہے ہیں جن سے عام عوام کی ہمدردیاں احتجاج میں شامل افراد کے ساتھ بڑھ رہی ہیں
بچے کے سیکھنے کے دایرہ کو
محدود نہ کریں
میں کوی ماہر لکھنے والا نہیں ہوں۔پہلی بار والدین کے لیے لکھ رہا ہوں امید ہے آپ کو پسند آے گا۔ یہ میرا مشاہدہ اور تجربہ ہے ۔
عام طور پر کہا جاتا ہے کہ بچوں میں خصوصیات بچے کے ماں باپ سے بچے میں منتقل ہوتی ہیں۔ اور یہ بات درست بھی ہے ۔ ایک وقت تک بچے ہم والدین سے منسلک رہتے ہیں یہ وہ وقت ہوتا ہے جب بچے بیٹھ نہیں سکتے یہ عرصہ تب ختم ہوتا ہے جب بچے بولنا اور چلنا شروع کرتے ہیں چلنے اور بولنے کے عمل کے بعد بچے والدین کے علاوہ دوسرے افراد کے بارے میں جاننے لگ جاتے ہیں جن میں محلے کے افراد، دوکاندار، سکول کی گاڑی کا ڈرایور ، سکول اور سکول کے اندر کام کرنے والے افراد ۔
بچے کے سیکھنے کا یہ سرکل مرحلہ وار بڑھتا ہے مگر میرا مشاہدہ ہے کہ ہم والدین بچے کے اس سیکھنے کے سرکل کو محدود کرنے کے اقدامات کرتے ہیں میں اورمیری بیوی گاوں میں رہتے تھے ۔ بچوں کی بہتر تعلیم کی خاطر ہم ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔ جاری ہے
Parents should not limit their chaild's learning circle.
I am not a professional writer. I am writing for parents for the first time. I hope you will agree. This is my observation and experience.
It is commonly said that traits in children are passed on from parents to parents, and this is true. Children are attached to us parents for a while. This is the time when children cannot sit and this period ends when children learn to walk and speak on their own. After learning to walk and talk, children begin to learn about people other than their parents, including people in the neighborhood, shopkeepers, school car drivers, school and in-school workers.
The child's learning circle gradually increases, but I observe that we parents take steps to limit this child's learning circle.
My wife and I lived in the village. We will shift from the village to the city for better education of the children.
At that time our children had a son and a daughter. The son was six years old and the daughter was three years old.
After shifting to the city, we enrolled our son in the school. The school was close to home.
Our son would tell us what he learned from school.
Along with us, he would tell his sister everything he had learned from school.
At this point, information about our son began to arrive in our home. I was watching the whole process closely. Most of the information coming into the house through the son was being passed on to the daughter and the daughter would get more information about this information from me and my wife.
This process of children's learning continues through its various stages. One day our son and daughter will buy something from the general store near their house.
In the past, whenever the children went to the general store to buy something, they would come back in more time than that time, so I went out of the house to find out about them at the general store.
There were five houses between our house and the general store. I saw the children standing in front of the house in front of the general store holding each other's fingers.
They are not talking to each other and they are not moving. They are just standing in this house.
I found it very strange what was in the house that the children were watching.
I walked slowly closer to the children and was surprised to see that the children
In the front house, an elderly couple was watching. The elderly couple were so old that they did not know anyone was standing outside watching them
The two children had gone out of the house to buy something from the general store, but before the general store, these children would not only stop to see the elderly couple, but would also be unaware of the situation around them.
The children were listening to the elderly couple. There was a gate between the children and the elderly couple. The children could not enter through the gate and the elderly couple could not get up
and come out.
Seeing this scene made me realize how important it is for children to have adults in their home as well as learning materials. How much the children miss the absence of the elders in the house.
Because when I got home with the kids, these were the questions the kids asked me and my wife
Dad, where do these old people meet?
Why don't we have two elders in our house?
Why didn't these two elders talk to us?
Don't the elders talk to others?
Why do the elderly live on this side of the street?
You bring us elders too
We will also keep the elderly at home.
From these children's questions, I learned that a lot of knowledge is passed on from children to adults.
And the fact is that at the age of childbearing, parents also earn a living. It also takes time to make a living. At the same time, children are also needed and they want to have their own answers with them at all times so that they can ask everything.
What they want to ask. They can learn everything that children want to learn. It may not be so important in Western society, but in the East there is no denying it.
The parent and child unit exists in both societies. As members of this unit, we should benefit from each other's experiences.
Western society is wasting a great deal of knowledge by deeming this family system unnecessary.
Just because raising your own elders at home is an expensive task, but you can be sure that the elders at home are full-time coaches. There are full time teachers. There are machines for the elderly children in the house which are ready to tell and teach something to the children all the time.
These elders pass on their experience to future generations.
While a tutor can stay in your home just to teach your children for a fee?
Your answer will be no
In response to the children's questions, we would shift back from the city to the village where full-time elders were available to answer the children's questions. I have learned from this process that not all parents can pass on all the traits to their children. No one else can pass this part of, so I will tell the newlywed parents not to let the relationship break. Breaking this relationship will leave your children's learning incomplete.